Once a girlfriend of mine asked me: "Why do you use sex toys? I really cannot understand what people use sex toys for and why they need them, especially those who have a sex partner. You are married, you and your partner are both healthy people, and as far as I know you both have normal libido, so why do you use these dildos, vibrators and all this kind of erotic stuff? "

Well, I don't know what other people use sex toys for. I think that every couple is unique, as well as every person is unique. Everyone has his or her own needs, desires, preferences and fantasies. That is why I cannot answer this question on behalf of all people. I only want to tell you what I use sex toys for. Who knows, may be someone will find something interesting in my experience and will find an idea on how to vary his or her own sexual relationships and sensations.

So, what I use sex toys for?

1.My husband and I often use sex toys to enhance oral sex. Thus he stimulates my clitoris with a vibrator while performing cunillingus. What for me, I use vibrator on his anus or on the balls while performing fellatio. You do know that oral sex on its own is extremely pleasurable, but can you imagine what great sensations you can get if it is enhanced by additional stimulation? I do recommend everyone to try using vibrators during oral sex.

2. As well we love using cock rings, especially those which have clitoral stimulator attached. Thus I get dual pleasure: intercourse plus incredibly enjoyable clitoral stimulation. Often this way I get two orgasms at once or one after another: vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm. By the way, do you know that cock rings make penis harder and enable a man to maintain erection? My husband does not have erection problems, but men who cannot maintain erection for a long time really should consider using a cock ring.

3. Due to my husband's job we very often have to be apart. Do you know what we do when he is gone and we both feel like having sex? Believe it or not we have very amazing phone sex! We say to each other many tender words, arouse each other with our voices and simultaneously play with sex toys. I usually use a vibrator or a dildo, whereas he makes love to a realistic vagina. This is a very amazing experience! It greatly spices up our relationships!

Of course, I did not mention all possible ways of using sex toys, but I think my experience shows that sex toys greatly enhance sex life. My girlfriend began thinking of buying a sex toy. And you?

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